How to get a pious wife?
salamu aleikum wa rahmatullah
i need azawja saliha how can i do to get it ?
in this moment i’m poor and want to complete my deen?
Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem.
Alhamdulillaahi was salaatu was salaamu `alaa Rasoolillaahi wa `alaa aalihi wa sahbihi wa man waalaahu, wa ba`d:
Wa `alaykumus salaamu wa rahmatullaah.
The first and most important step is to make abundant Du`aa, because none besides Allaah has the ability to make it happen.
Then inform your parents, sisters, aunts etc of your intention of marriage, and ask them to look for someone for you, for they are more experienced in this field.
You also need to inculcate Taqwaa and good character in your life, and In-Shaa Allaah you will get your spouse, as Allaah says in Surah At-Talaaq Aayah 2: “And whoever fears Allaah, He will make for him a way out.” [i]
As for your financial situation, if you feel you will not be able to do justice to a wife if you marry then you should rather stay single, have Sabr, and fast.
Hadhrat `Abdullaah (Ibn Mas`ood) Radhiallaahu `Anhu narrated that Rasoolullaah Sallallaahu `Alayhi Wa Sallam said: “O Gathering of youth, whoever of you is capable of marriage should marry, and whoever is not capable should fast, because it is a protection for him.” – Saheeh Al-Bukhaari.[ii]
May Allaah grant you piety and wealth, and grant you a pious wife and offspring.
And Allaah knows best.
Ubaidullah Ibn Adam Aal-Ebrahim.
Checked and Approved by:
Mufti Rashid Ahmed Moosagie.
Tuesday 15th Dhul Qa`dah 1433 – 2nd October 2012.